PSI (BDSM)

I practice a kind of Leather which is known as Power Submission and Intimacy. This is not your Granddaddy's Old Guard Leather Style. This is a much more participatory form, where the possibility always exists for input from the bottom. You are encouraged to tell me what you want more of and when. I can, of course, say no or use the Safe Word (Ours is "Uncle."), just like you can. If you want to see what it is like to be a Leather Top, please look at the section about the Three Minute Game.

From the beginning of time, men have taken the opportunity to test themselves physically and mentally. There have been initiation rites, rites of passage, or just plain proving to yourself how strong you are. Now you have the opportunity to use surrender to test and learn about yourself. .... Or, to suggest another intention, did you know that many people, some of whom have trouble staying in one place and blanking out their minds (but not all of them), use bondage, even as extreme as mummification, or Leather roleplay (like training to be a dog) or even FF to help them relax into deep meditiation?

I like this red color on this page. But, don't get me wrong. Anything involving blood, or (some people get the wrong impression from my nickname) knives, etc., is definitely beyond my limits. ... Everyone has limits. We are very good at respecting them and slowly stretching them. We are excellent with beginners. We're always willing and able to start you on your leather experiences or let you try it out one time so as to better understand others. We are also good with intermediates. ... We always work with a safe word, "Uncle." If you don't know what a safe word is I am more than williing to explain it over the phone, whether you intend to hire one of us immediately or not. It is something which you should negotiate with any man whom you choose to trust with your power.

Are you brand, spanking new to the Leather scene? (Pun intended.) Well, you do greatly increase your chances of getting what you want if you know what it is that you want. Every three months or so, I offer a group class, Leather for Absolute Beginners. Email me if you want to know the date of the next one. .... And if you can't wait til then, please bring with you to the first session where you hope to do Leather work around 3 - 10 pictures which show things that you think you would enjoy doing. Photographs are a bit better than drawings for this, as fantasy drawings can show things which are just absolutely impossible to do, especially with beginners.

Almost anyone can do almost anything when he/she knows that it will only be for three minutes. Neither Maverick nor I will bottom for pay. It just doesn't sound safe. However, we will do this game with you. (It's also great for people who just want to dip their toe in and see how the water is, so to speak) Each person takes turns. During your turn, you ask the other player to do something to or for you. If they want to say yes, then they say "Yes, I can do that." When they want to refuse they say, " Thank you very much. What else would you like me to do?" Then, after something is agreed upon, they do it for three minutes, measured by a stop watch. The game stops when everyone has had enough. Easy and fun, eh? Definitely safe and sane, but I don't do Leather any other way.