Taoist Erotic Bodywork

Many people call this Taoist Erotic Massage, but that is a misnomer as we don't manipulate the muscles during this bodywork. If you have ever taken the first Body Electric class, Celebrate The Body Erotic!, this is the main thing that they start teaching you there. Many people think that it is basically the only thing that Body Electric teaches, but, boy, is that wrong! As you can tell from the rest of this site.

Some people think that I choose odd music for my bodywork. That's often because they come with preconceptions which keep them from seeing and enjoying what is the point of this kind of work. True, the music starts out with the same kind of music you might expect from a Swedish Masseur. But then it keeps building until towards the end it can get pretty wild. Then there is a period of soft music, and then some to help you "come back to earth" and be ready to leave. .... So, it's not all warm and fuzzy like Cirque de Soleil. It can include a lot of drums, or classical, or movie music or Broadway. In fact, let me know your favorite type of music before you come over, and, if I have some of it, I'll work it in.

Yes, if you want the full effect of the session, you need to do the breathing. It is so important that energetic healers call it Pranayama. (Check with your yoga instructor if you don't believe me.) In fact, the easy, fast way to get many of the effects of this kind of work is to just do the breathing by itself. .... We breath in energetically, and then make sure to relax on the exhalation. .... We breath along with the music, in many ways. It starts out gentle and then builds up to a wild climax. Then, at the beginning of the Big Draw, we hold our breath three times. Then the Pranayama is basically over and we just coast down from it.

It's clothing optional, both yours and mine, at your request. However, it's important to know how and when to just relax and receive pleasure without having to give it back immediately and without planning what you're going to do when it's your turn to give it. This session is about your pleasure. If you want the full effect of it, you simply cannot be paying any attention to pleasing me. If you are willing to give up a large part of the "gift" I am giving you, then, well, we'll see. ... And, for the full effect, you can't give in to the urge to ejaculate. (If you accidently do, that will be honored.) The secret of multiple male orgasms is to give up the idea that the only way you can orgasm is the wet way. At full effect, this method will cause you to kria. A kria is a splended shudder that encompases your entire body. Everything is going too well for you and your body dances spontaneously into this shake. And, when it keeps going that well, there will be another, and another. And, if your mind is open to it, this will be the most mind blowing series of orgasms you have ever had in your life.

For about three minutes immediately following the musical climax and the three held breaths of the Pranayama climax, I will just observe and protect you while you just lie on the "massage" table. You will be withdrawing into yourself. In fact, this will often be accentuated by the sheet being pulled around you like a cocoon. Including your face, should you so desire. But, chances are, you won't be just relaxing. You might have an out of body experience. You might stay in it, but feel the presense of your departed loved ones, or ancestors, or important cultural ancestors, etc. I have no idea what will happen in your mind, but it is likely to be wonderful. You will most likely receive spiritual and emotional input in your meditative trance. .... Then, when you come out of it, I'll help you to sit up. We'll hug. I'll offer you water to drink and a shower. And change the music to gently energizing.